Ok. This one is easy up until you have to grab the urn.
Get in the house, investigate bottom floor, top floor, then basement.
The Urn is behind the house.
When you activate it by clicking on the tomb stone you find it was warded.
Click the orbs. The correct order is: Bottom Right, Top Left, Top Right, Bottom Left, Top Center.
Take the Ashes and scatter them by going to the river and follow your guide marker. Good AP and SP. Cheers!